Recommended Reading List

HIC encourages you to browse through Tapesty Books or go to the Amazon website.

We also encourage all adopting parents to read at least a few of these adult books and as many of the children’s books as possible.

Presentations (PowerPoint Required)

Books for Adults

  • Being Adopted: The Lifelong Search for Self by David Brodzinsky
  • How it Feels to Be Adopted by Jill Krementz
  • Toddler Adoption by Mary Hopkins Best
  • The Lost Daughters of China by Karin Evans
  • Adopted from Asia by Frances Koh
  • Are Those Kids Yours?: American Families with Children Adopted From Other Countries by Cheri Register
  • Our Own: Adopting and Parenting the Older Child by Trish Maskew
  • With Eyes Wide Open: A Workbook for Parents Adopting International Children Over Age One by Margi Miller and Nancy Ward
  • The Russian Word for Snow: A True Story of Adoption by Janis Cooke Newman
  • Voices from Another Place edited by Susan Soon-Keum Cox
  • Raising Adopted Children by Lois Ruskai Melina
  • Dim Sum, Bagels and Grits: A Sourcebook for Multicultural Families by Myra Alperson
  • Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew by Sherrie Eldgridge
  • Attaching in Adoption: Practical Tools for Today’s Parents by Deborah D. Gray
  • Parenting the Hurt Child by Gregory C. Keck and Regina M. Kupecky
  • Adopting the Hurt Child: Hope for Families with Special Needs Kids by Gregory C. Keck and Regina M. Kupecky
  • Journey of the Adopted Self by Betty Jean Lifton
  • Adoption Nation by Adam Perman
  • Adoption LifeBook by Cindy Probst
  • Talking with Young Children about Adoption by Mary Watkins, Ph.D., and Susan Fisher, M.D.
  • Telling the Truth to your Adopted or Foster Child: Making Sense of the Past by Jayne Schooler

Children’s Books

  • The White Swan Express by Jean Davies Okimoto and Elaine M. Aoki
  • We See the Moon by Carrie A. Kitze
  • I Love You Like Crazy Cakes by Jean MacLeod
  • Tell Me Again About the Night I Was Adopted by Jamie Lee Curtis
  • Heart of Mine by Dan and Lotta Hojer
  • Happy Adoption Day by John McCutcheon
  • Over the Moon: An Adoption Tale by Karen Katz
  • An Mei’s Strange and Wonderous Journey by Stephan Molnar-Fenton
  • Through the Moon and Stars and Night Skies by Ann Turner
  • Burya and the Burps by Joan McNamara
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